Do unto others what you want others to do upon you.
Don’t expect me to open up to you & let you know all my secrets when you can’t give honest answers back. This is probably the reason as to why I click with some friends better (even though I know there much shorter than other long-term ones).
I really got sick of finding out from people what’s wrong with them. It is irritating, at least to me, when someone keeps bugging me to reveal certain information which I’m not comfortable sharing with. Therefore, I don’t bug my friends what is their problems. If you think you want to let me know, then go ahead! I’d gladly offer you my listening ear & seriously shut up to hear you out.
If not, DON’T SAY ANYTHING. Why do people around me start acting like my MOM nowadays? Keep mumbling stories or some stuffs she is unsatisfied about & YET, don’t tell me what she wants me to do in the end. No point. IRKS ME TO THE CORE.
I am sorry if I sound harsh or perhaps, a selfish and uncaring bitch. I’ve made it clear that “If you think you want to let me know, then go ahead! I’d gladly offer you my listening ear & seriously shut up to hear you out. ” That’s what friends are for, right?
On the contrary, if you continue mumbling your problems and yet, not telling me anything, I really feel like strangling you. By the way, don’t expect me to tell you my problems too. This is how I operate -using the golden rule.
& I realised how much I hate to be restricted. Don’t like anyone to get onto my back. Don’t like to care too much. Don’t like to report to someone the time I’m going home. Don’t like to put up boundaries for myself.
Kudos to freedom.
